Jessica Parker

Pleasure Educator & Sensual Curator

What exactly is a Tantric massage?

I think I want to book a Tantric Massage but I’m a bit confused about what it actually is!

If you're considering booking a tantric massage, you might be feeling a bit confused about what it actually entails. This is completely understandable, as the term "tantric massage" can mean different things to different people. Particularly here in London  UK when you google Tantric Massage - anything and everything comes up so no wonder people don’t know where to start!   Many places have multiple websites with slightly different vibes or themes and menus as to what exactly is involved during a session. In this article, we'll take a closer look at what tantric massage is, why it can be confusing to understand, and how to navigate the process of booking one.

First of all, let's define what tantric massage actually is. At its core, tantric massage is a form of sensual massage that aims to awaken the senses and promote a deep sense of relaxation and pleasure. It is often associated with the principles of Tantra, which is an ancient spiritual practice that originated in India. Tantra is all about embracing the physical and spiritual aspects of life and experiencing them in a mindful and present way.

So, why is it confusing to understand what tantric massage is? There are a few reasons for this. Firstly, the term "tantric massage" is often used as a catch-all phrase to describe a wide range of sensual massage techniques. This can include anything from a basic Swedish massage with a sensual twist, ‘happy ending’ massages, ‘rub & tug’, to a more involved form of bodywork that incorporates breathing exercises, meditation, and other Tantric practices.

Another reason why it can be confusing is that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to tantric massage. Different practitioners may have their own unique style or approach, depending on their training and personal philosophy. Some may focus more on the physical aspects of the massage, while others may incorporate more spiritual or energetic elements. Basically, as its not really a regulated type of therapy any one and everyone can have their own interpretation as to what a tantric massage entails.

So, how can you navigate the process of booking a tantric massage when there is so much variation and complexity involved? Here are a few tips to help you get started:

  1. Do your research. Before booking a tantric massage, take some time to research different practitioners or massage studios in your area. Look at their websites and read reviews from other clients to get a sense of their approach and what you can expect.

  2. Ask questions. Don't be afraid to ask questions when you're booking a tantric massage. A good practitioner will be happy to answer any questions you have and help you feel more comfortable and informed about the process.

  3. Set clear boundaries. It's important to communicate your boundaries and preferences before and during the massage. Let your practitioner know if there are any areas of your body you don't want to be touched or if you have any other concerns.

  4. Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right during the massage, don't hesitate to speak up or end the session. A good practitioner will respect your boundaries and work with you to create a safe and comfortable environment.

In conclusion, while it can be confusing to understand exactly what tantric massage is, with a bit of research and communication, you can find a practitioner who can provide you with a relaxing and enjoyable experience. Remember to trust your instincts and communicate clearly to ensure a positive and fulfilling experience.

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